Moving on…  listen to this…

You’re welcome. 

Yes, moving on is hard, and sad.  There will be a lot of lonely nights.  Some nights even shameful whimpering crying.

But it does get better.

Music literally saved my heart from falling into a deep endless dark abyss. 

Find your music and songs, trust me, it helps!  Feed your soul with music 🎵🎶🎵🎧


This song made me want to be in love again…

I would listen to this song while reading the 50 Shades of Grey Trilogy, and it made me break up with my boyfriend at the time.  

Those 2 things combined made me realize I needed to feel something more in my relationship.  Saved me from settling. 

Cure to get out of settling:

Good romance books + Great love music on Pandora= Motivation to be “in love” 

3 years later I got married.  Crazy. I increased my standards, realistically of course, and I actually ended up being “in love”.

Be slow to anger and don’t be so quick to judge…

Everyone is going through something that you know NOTHING about, so be patient with people, if you have to walk away do so.  

Don’t expect people to understand you and feel sorry for you, if you can’t do the same for others.  We are all BROKEN at some point in our lives, there are NO exceptions for anyone. 

You’re not always going to be in a good mood and you’re not always going to be hunky dorie happy, so try to understand when other people struggle to be in a good mood.  You don’t know what they’re going through. 

Feeling sad and depressed is universal, it doesn’t matter what the situation is, the feeling is exactly the same for everyone.

Think twice before you judge someone.